what’s your ideal type of guy? hmmm.. sounds easy, but not that easy actually. What’s my ideal type of guy? I haven’t thought about this before, till’ someone keep asking and asking me what’s my ideal type. Even this person asked me to describe my prince charming on a poem? Even before i do it, i know it’s a difficult task to do.

 Sooo.. I start thinking ‘maybe  I don’t have special type? I’ve noticed that whenever I get attracted to a guy, this guy, that guy, till the next guy, another next guy to the next and next again (AND STOP!!!) it’s not always the same reason or maybe factors is the exact words, which attracted me to them. But if you feel like you ever make me attracted then congratulations cause you are unique enough, since it’s not easy to capture my expensive attention. haha. Well… I’m normal (OF COURSE!) but the thing is that I just don’t get easily attracted to the opposite sex. I think I have this sort of short attention span, that if by chance someone gets my attention, probably in a blink of an eye or seconds later, he gets out my mind. But, if he is able to stay in my mind longer, there must be something special that I notice in a that guy before he captivates my attention. And if I finally think, that ‘I kindaI like this guy!’, hmmmmmm something is actually going further beyond just the initial and physical attraction. hey, You! you get what I mean don’t you?

 The most important reason why a girl likes a guy, is without a doubt come from the personality and character.  I must say that my ideal guy should be someone with brains but not that too nerdy or too intellectual type that whenever  you ask them, they may give the exactly the same answer written on the book (including the tittle, name of author and page number?! *footnotes style) or the type of guy that calculates everything like he’s doing math. and heyyy btw LIFE ≠ (2x + 1)(2 + V4x + 6) - lim 77 x_»_i -2(2x + 1) 1 (2x + 1)(2 + V4x + 6) - V12 + 4 1 1 1 Vl6+Vl6 4 + 4 8 = ERROR. -__-     well I just want him to be smart, can carry a conversation well (better than me) and has a broaaaaddd knowledge ( at least I gain something from him). Next which is also important, he has to have a good sense of humor. humor is important in a relationship, especially for silly person like me who likes jokes around. But even if he is kidding a lot, he has to be serious and thoughtful too. I’m looking for someone who can make me feel than I am importuned and special, someone who makes efforts to make me feel that way. Someone who can convince me, “hey, whenever you need me, I’ll be there”. *awwwhh♥  .

 Age is not a major concern though, but maturity, YES! I want someone who’s proud of me and someone I can be proud of, but I want him to be humble with his feet on the ground despite any achievements he might have, someone who has goal and ready to fight for the better future. I want him to be free from badmouthing even we’re in the middle of a fight. I want him to be understanding, non-judgmental, caring, a family man and MOST OF ALL, someone who spoils me yet still has the capacity to control me from this stubbornness. Someone who keeps encouraging me not to take a step back without even trying.

 He doesn’t have to be this type of religious person, but I will be more impressed by someone who has little time to be shared with God and knows how to get enlightenment from it.

 And I think I need a guy who… STOP!!! am I too demanding? or I may sound too controlling, too straight forward, but that’s how i want my ideal guy to be.. And I’m waiting for that one to come. And for someone out there who does not take me for granted and someone who does not give up on me…. I’m ready to be with you for the rest of my life. :)

ps: uppss.. i can see someone is smiling while reading this. :p

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